For years, I’d believed that a successful marriage depended on compromise and understanding. I still believed those qualities mattered, but I was beginning to recognize that compromise couldn’t exist when one person secretly made decisions that belonged to the other.
My father’s tools were more than an inheritance with a potential resale value. They represented his work, his generosity toward neighbors, and the countless afternoons he’d spent teaching me skills that I continued using long after his death.
Selling them would have meant losing physical reminders of experiences I could never recreate. Dereck had viewed the equipment as an unnecessary expense, but he hadn’t been the little girl sitting beside Dad’s workbench, learning how to turn a rough piece of timber into something useful.
One Saturday, Mom visited again, and we spent part of the afternoon looking through the photographs we’d discovered in storage unit B-17. She told me stories about Dad’s early years as a carpenter, including the times he’d repaired furniture for families who couldn’t afford to replace it.