onLeave a Comment on I bought plane tickets for the whole family, but at the airport my daughter-in-law gently told me they had given my seat to her own mother because the kids feel ‘closer to her,’ and my son quietly agreed. I froze for a moment, then smiled and walked away without raising my voice. One minute later, after I’d calmed myself, I changed the entire $47,000 Hawaii vacation with a single polite phone call and quietly rearranged my $5.8 million estate in a way no one expected. 
But I chose differently.
I chose the girl from the South Side who put herself through medical school. I chose the woman who scrubbed in on impossible cases and refused to give up on failing hearts. I chose the grandmother who still runs on the lakefront and books herself flights to Paris.
I chose myself.
