I bought plane tickets for the whole family, but at the airport my daughter-in-law gently told me they had given my seat to her own mother because the kids feel ‘closer to her,’ and my son quietly agreed. I froze for a moment, then smiled and walked away without raising my voice. One minute later, after I’d calmed myself, I changed the entire $47,000 Hawaii vacation with a single polite phone call and quietly rearranged my $5.8 million estate in a way no one expected.

And I would start planning the solo trip to Paris I’d been putting off for years.

At exactly two p.m., I walked into Patricia Chen’s law office on a high floor of a glass tower overlooking the Chicago River. The reception area smelled faintly of coffee and toner, the soundtrack a soft mix of printer hum and distant traffic from Wacker Drive below.

Floor-to-ceiling windows framed the river, half-frozen in the lingering Midwestern cold. A tour boat crawled beneath the Michigan Avenue bridge, its guide talking into a microphone no one could hear from up here.

“Margaret,” Patricia said, appearing in the doorway to her office. “Come in.”

She’s in her fifties now—sharp black bob, sharp gray suit, sharp mind. The kind of woman opposing counsel underestimates exactly once.

I sat in the leather chair across from her desk. The same chair where, years ago, we’d talked about selling my practice, structuring retirement, making sure Kevin would be “taken care of” if anything happened to me.