Teenagers need opportunities to experiment with independence. They sometimes make poor decisions. They misunderstand situations, challenge rules, and occasionally behave in ways that embarrass their parents.
These experiences are a normal part of growing up.
Yet for children connected to the presidency, the possibility of having personal moments photographed, discussed, or criticized creates an entirely different environment.
Michelle understood that her daughters needed room tobecome adults without feeling that every mistake might define them in the eyes of strangers.
Her challenge was not to create perfect children.
